HE did that, SHE did that!

SHE was doing barely fine, but promised SHE will never hurt herself again. Living in a world filled with monsters, SHE wore the mask of happiness. Going here and there, trying to keep up with her loneliness. Suddenly SHE meets him; THE MR RIGHT. Going all crazy with all the promises and lies HE makes up. Thinking this time it will be different. Silly girl, SHE was not aware what the future had to hold for her was way worse then she could ever imagine.

Their love grew like a flower, HE promised her every happiness. SHE was filled with joy and happiness. Finally her life was picture perfect but suddenly it was crashing down. SHE was in a shock, how can in a short span of time HE has the power to do that to her. To kill her without doing a thing. SHE got herself addicted to him while HE was busy goofing around. SHE saw him enjoying with his friends while she waits every night for him. SHE kept on begging for his and he kept making excuses. SHE tried leaving him but SHE never had the will to do so,thinking this time it will change.

Then, SHE finally see how happy HE was without her so SHE gave up on the one thing that kept her alive. SHE kept quiet while HE was busy in his life. Taking her for granted that no matter what happens SHE is gonna stick around. But this time it is not like that; SHE let him go for him!

 

 

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Generation Gap in love!

We all have watched one romantic movie that has made us fall in love. It is about the idea of falling in love our generation has adapted.  We hate flaws and are so obsessed with perfectionism that we will find flaws in every person. Either s/he is short, tall, fair, dark, fat, too skinny… This isn’t the only labels that we have to deal. A person hanging out with the opposite gender is labeled as stud or slut.

Meet someone new. Exchange numbers. Add them on Social Sites. Late-night conversations. Question-answer games. Ask out. Dates. Make out. Have Sex. Lose interest.  We know the drill all too well, don’t we? Most of haven’t been in love, it’s the idea! The thrill that excites us. Did we really screw the concept of love? It is like a game for us! The CHASE; a better way to rephrase it. Once that ends, It Ends!!

Other who has been broken in love are reluctant to let go, So what if it didn’t work in the first go! Doesn’t mean you can’t love again… We are bitter to let go, to come out of the delusion that our happily ever after is not so happy after all.

We all are hopeless in love, we don’t want to settle for less and that is the cause for the rapid procedure. We fall in love in a speed more greater than light.. But falling out of it is twice  the pace of light. Hence, most of us are afraid to label our relations. Why? Because the whole world will know and if it won’t work? It would be a shame. The idea of love is for two people not the world. Why do we care about what other people think? We are afraid of defining relations because then people would know. And we’d not be able to end this ‘thing’ as easily as we would have.
And then, most of us are finding love on FACEBOOK, TINDER, OKCUPID, POF and many more. We are available but never available, we are out there – on social media websites, on dating apps, at parties, but all this while, are we really available? Delete Tinder, meet them rather than adding them on facebook, have a conversation rather then emojis and DON’T BE AFRAID.

Give it a chance, make it real!

-Njtashu