“I should have concentrated on studies I could pass it.” –Sameer
Well haven’t we been through this? Those wishes…. We all wished for. But have we ever realized and been grateful for all that we have, in the same universe someone might be praying to get what you are neglecting.
Could we just halt these desires that have a never ending STOP. And be thankful for all that we have.
I am not going to write tons and tons and make you so bored, in simple words I want to say that no matter what are you going through. Be positive and grateful. You never know when is the last day you would be enjoying all these things. And don’t forget to share, there is no better joy than sharing. After all, sharing is caring.
We all have watched one romantic movie that has made us fall in love. It is about the idea of falling in love our generation has adapted. We hate flaws and are so obsessed with perfectionism that we will find flaws in every person. Either s/he is short, tall, fair, dark, fat, too skinny… This isn’t the only labels that we have to deal. A person hanging out with the opposite gender is labeled as stud or slut.
Meet someone new. Exchange numbers. Add them on Social Sites. Late-night conversations. Question-answer games. Ask out. Dates. Make out. Have Sex. Lose interest. We know the drill all too well, don’t we? Most of haven’t been in love, it’s the idea! The thrill that excites us. Did we really screw the concept of love? It is like a game for us! The CHASE; a better way to rephrase it. Once that ends, It Ends!!
Other who has been broken in love are reluctant to let go, So what if it didn’t work in the first go! Doesn’t mean you can’t love again… We are bitter to let go, to come out of the delusion that our happily ever after is not so happy after all.
We all are hopeless in love, we don’t want to settle for less and that is the cause for the rapid procedure. We fall in love in a speed more greater than light.. But falling out of it is twice the pace of light. Hence, most of us are afraid to label our relations. Why? Because the whole world will know and if it won’t work? It would be a shame. The idea of love is for two people not the world. Why do we care about what other people think? We are afraid of defining relations because then people would know. And we’d not be able to end this ‘thing’ as easily as we would have.
And then, most of us are finding love on FACEBOOK, TINDER, OKCUPID, POF and many more. We are available but never available, we are out there – on social media websites, on dating apps, at parties, but all this while, are we really available? Delete Tinder, meet them rather than adding them on facebook, have a conversation rather then emojis and DON’T BE AFRAID.
Today I will write about something we all face. How many of us jump into relations because we fear that we cannot be lonely? Is this far moving world, we are so busy in pleasing the world that we forget to give yourself the attention we need and require. We all want to be loved, but what is the use of that love which is not lasting. How can we live with the people who are not our ideal soul mate. Ideal? They are least bothered about us. Putting pictures together on social sites is the new trend. Everyone wants to blend in. But what is the use to blend in when you’re born to stand out? Is being a happy couple online is what our goal is?
I don’t get it why people are so reluctant in loving our-self. I personally believe that if we can start giving us time that’s is how we can achieve it.
We don’t need to live with someone just because we are alone, how can we find happiness in others when we are not satisfied by our-self. Start loving yourself before you start loving others. And believe me, everyone has a soul-mate out there.
As i always say, we should not look for love but let love find us.